7.18.19
Hi baby –
It’s me, dad. I wanted to write you a little letter before I really knew you and before I’m too busy loving you and taking care of you and your mom. We’re so excited to meet you, it’s been a dream of mine to be a dad for a long time and I get emotional just thinking about holding you and seeing how happy your mom is going to be. You’re our dream come true and we love you like you wouldn’t believe.
I guess I wanted to tell you about some stuff that’s happening right now so one day you can look back and have a little history. I’m currently at work – BCW Global – and I’m patiently waiting for my summer party tonight. I’m listening to Dark Side of the Moon by Pink Floyd, you’re going to fucking love this I swear. Oh yeah, I curse. I probably won’t when you’re young, but a few might slip in here and there. But yeah, music is the best thing in the world. I can’t wait to show you so many of my favorite artists and their different albums/singles. Your grandpa and grandma really shared their love of music with me and it’s been a huge part of my life. Currently in 2019 my top 5 artists of all time are Kanye, John Mayer, The Killers, Fall Out Boy and Taking back Sunday.
Mom and I are currently watching The Sopranos, a classic that will probably be so lame to you when you’re old enough to watch. If you’re anything like me, you won’t really be all that interested in old stuff – even if it is classic. I’ve never seen Jaws or Indiana Jones. Give me cool new stuff all day long. Oh speaking of movies/entertainment/books, your mom LOVES Harry Potter. Her favorite character is Ron Weasely. If you’re reading this, you probably already know this and have been watching the HP movies or reading the books for a while now, but it feels important.
Gonna talk sports here for a minute. In our family, we root for the Knicks, Giants, Mets and Rangers. The Knicks will always suck as long as Dolan owns the team. We just signed a bunch of guys in free agency, all of which will likely not have much impact. Only guy I really like is Julius Randle. As for the Giants, they’re currently at a low point. I was lucky enough to see Eli lead us to two super bowls, sitting right next to my dad screaming in excitement. I HOPE we get the same experience, it’s fucking amazing. As for the Mets, much like the Knicks they will forever suck. They’ve been largely garbage for my existence but they’re lovable losers. Grandma loves her Mets, don’t worry we’ll go there on Sundays for some day games. When it comes to the Rangers, I won’t bullshit you, I like to watch when they’re good but other than that I really don’t care all that much about hockey. I will say – go to a playoff hockey game cause they’re awesome.
Jumping into some life advice/things to live by:
• If someone holds the door for you, always say thank you
• If you end up being a boy, always hold the door for a lady and let her go first
• When you shake someone’s hand, look them in the eye. Make it a firm shake – no limp fish
• The best Kanye album (as of today’s date) is My Beautiful Dark Twisted Fantasy
• Mozzarella is the best cheese
• Say yes more than you say no. If you have an opportunity to do something you’ve never done before, try it. Except for drugs.
• When you’re having people over for dinner/barbecue whatever – always buy more than you need
• Save some money and avoid debt where possible
• If things feel uncomfortable at work, it probably means you’re learning something new – embrace the moment and keep pushing
• Push yourself to your limits, it’s the only way you’ll ever find out who you really are
• Smile a lot and be really nice to people. Makes them feel good, makes you feel good.
• Don’t skimp on a mattress, and if you can afford it get a California King, fucking awesome
• Most people are dumb, not much to this one just an observation
• If you ever don’t know what to get me for Christmas just frame a few pictures of me. I love me some me.
• Go see the world in your 20’s – even if it’s just weekend trips – go see stuff and take lots of pictures
• Don’t blame meat for what the bread does
• Make lots of playlists
Okay that’s all I have for now. But I’ll probably be back with some more. I’m including a picture of what I look like at this very moment and what YOU look like as of yesterday morning in your moms’ belly.
Love you,
Dad
